MySpace.com abuse

FONTANA, Calif. - A group of boys who posed as a 15-year-old girl for an Internet prank ended up helping police arrest a 48-year-old man who tried to meet the fictitious teenager for sex, authorities said.

The five boys had created a fake profile of a girl on MySpace.com — a social networking Web site — to cheer up a friend who had recently broken up with his girlfriend.

But soon, a man began sending messages to the “girl” and their conversations began to have sexual overtones, said Fontana police Sgt. William Megenney.

The man also sent the “girl” his picture and arranged to meet her at a public park. The boys went to the park and, when the man arrived, they called police.

Michael Ramos, 48, of Fontana, was booked into West Valley Detention Center on Monday for investigation of felony attempted lewd and lascivious conduct with a child and for an outstanding warrant, Megenney said.

He was being held at the West Valley Detention Center on $105,000 bail, according to the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Web site.

A dispatcher who answered the telephone at the center early Tuesday said the facility does not allow phone interviews with inmates. It was not immediately known whether Ramos had a lawyer.

Two men were arrested last week in what prosecutors said were the first federal sexual assault charges involving MySpace. The unrelated cases involved Connecticut girls who were 11 and 14, the FBI said.

concernedheart says:

Thousands of us may have a Myspace.com's account.Hopefully this case will be a lesson for us to be aware of strangers who we meet thru online messages and thru online chat rooms.

Never make a decision to send your photo to strangers thru emails,messengers and etc-you will never know what are they up to and it may be noxious to your safety once this strangers recognise you.

Once again,never fall for sweet words-the person may type many wonderful words to make u as a prey of lust.There is no reason for a stranger to be sweet to you unless he is up to something negative or trying to impress you to fall for his/her trap.

If a online contact calls you out after a few messages or conversations,please reject their invitation immediately-you don't even have to reason out why,its concerning your safety,try to avoid this person from further messaging or chatting because they may keep on bugging your life.
Its simple-just BLOCK them from your contact.

Parents should play a major role concerning this social problem.They should always monitor their kids' activities and their contacts as well.
Children may get easily irritated when their parent interferes with their activities,this is where parents should be smart to handle their kids rather than showing their superiority as parents by scolding them or beating them-its useless.
A smart and loving parenthood starts when a child is treated like a good friend(being more casual with their kids),thru this a deeper and easier understanding achieved between parents and children therefore children will never tend to be secretive.

Lately there many internet social network sevice accenting on friendship or on making new friends ,we can never escape from signing up for any one of it since our friends or batch mates might be having an account.Its a good idea and opportunity to keep your friend's contact in more organised form but please be cautious of the new people who contacts you...never trust them or their identity as they may just lie/have a fake account to catch your attention.

Be prudent from getting cheated by online contacts,avoid strangers,never give out your details to them.

Alittle survey

I posted all those old cases to just run a small survey about who frequently involved in sexual abuse.

As far as i concern,most of the cases were committed by those are close to the victims-mother,father,grandmother,teachers,siblings,friends and etc.

Many may think that sexual abuse is only committed by men-well that's not true.I have searched ample of cases to post and proof that even women commit such a sinful act.

Teacher pregnant again, apparently by her 14-year-old lover

16 March 1998
REUTERS / Martin Wolk

Ex-Washington Teacher Could Face More Charges

SEATTLE, WASHINGTON - The revelation that an imprisoned former teacher is pregnant again, apparently by her 14-year-old lover, increases the likelihood she will face new child rape charges, her lawyer said Sunday.

David Gehrke confirmed that former grade school teacher Mary L. is six weeks pregnant and plans to give birth at the Washington Corrections Center for Women. She entered the state's only women's prison last month to start serving an 89-month sentence stemming from the relationship with her former student.

"She's adamant she's not going to terminate the pregnancy," said Gehrke, who spoke to Mary L. Saturday.

"She's happy because a life has been created," he said. "From her own moral and religious background (she feels) it's a gift from God anytime a life is created."

Mary L. originally was sentenced to six months in jail after pleading guilty to second degree child rape, with the longer sentence suspended on condition that she get counseling and refrain from any further contact with the boy.

But just a month after her release, she and the boy were caught together in a car at 2:30 a.m. after spending an evening at the movies.

Women Who Make Child Pornography

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1)Sexual self-abuse: Teen girl charged with posting nude photos on Internet

3/29/2004
USA TODAY (AP)

A 15-year-old girl has been arrested for taking nude photographs of her self and posting them on the Internet, police said.

She has been charged with sexual abuse of children, possession of child pornography and dissemination of child pornography.

http://www.usatoday.com/tech/webguide/internetlife/2004-03-29-child-self-porn_x.htm


2)2 March 1999
STATES NEWS SERVICE
Child Porn: Mom Faces Felony Charge
11-19-99
MODESTO BEE / KEN CARLSON
http://www.modbee.com/metro/story/0,1113,116090,00.html

Mom faces felony in Net exploitation of girl

MANTECA, CALIFORNIA -- A 34-year-old woman accused of putting nude pictures of her 15-year-old daughter on the Internet is now facing felony charges after authorities said evidence of more extensive sexual conduct was found on a computer seized at the family's home.

San Joaquin County prosecutors levied only misdemeanor charges when she was arraigned Oct. 18, four days after detectives arrested the woman at the home, seizing a video camera and computer equipment.

The mother reportedly told detectives she had taken pictures of the girl disrobing and transmitted the images through a free chat room.

Authorities increased three of the charges to felonies last week, meaning the woman could serve up to four years and four months in state prison if convicted.

The woman, whose name is being withheld to protect the identity of her daughter, is charged with sexually exploiting a child, using a child to model for obscene material, and contributing to the delinquency of a child.

Authorities charge that the woman had been taping and putting pornography on the Internet for almost two months.

3)4-18-97

Second porn arrest in as many days

BUFFALO, NY (UPI) _ Another North Tonawandan has been arrested for child pornography for allegedly having 70 pictures of children performing sex acts. Yesterday (Thursday) a 30-year-old woman was arrested for promoting sexual acts among children and taking the 70 photographs of children 5-to-14 years of age.

4)11 Feb 1998

Mom Allegedly E-Mailed Nude Photos

CHARLOTTE, NORTH CAROLINA - A woman was charged with child abuse for allegedly e-mailing nude photos of her 15-year-old daughter to men, then arranging for the girl to have sex with them.

Police learned of the encounters after the daughter, now 17, confided in a friend in September, Investigator V.K. Rivera said.

The 44-year-old mother made contact with three men in Internet chat rooms in 1995 and 1996, posing as a 17-year-old girl, Rivera said.

The identity of the Charlotte woman was not released to protect the daughter's identity.

5)01/31/97
Miami Herald

Hollywood Police have arrested a 20-year-old woman on charges that she sexually abused two young boys and took pornographic pictures.

The incident allegedly took place in October. The father of one of the boys, who walked in while his son was being assaulted, did not report the crime until December, Hollywood Police spokeswoman Stephanie Norris said.

Little Girls Who Rape

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1)15 OCT 1998
DETROIT FREE PRESS

Girl Faces Tests Before Trial On Rape Charges

A 12-year-old Pontiac girl charged with raping her younger brother will undergo psychological testing to determine if she is fit to stand trial.

Oakland County Chief Circuit Judge Edward Sosnick ordered the testing Wednesday after talks between prosecutors and the girl's defense attorney about a possible plea bargain broke down....

2)17 March 1998

Another child has been charged in an alleged juvenile sex ring at a Reston middle school.

Fairfax County police say a 12-year-old Reston girl allegedly solicited other girls to take part in a sex-for-hire scheme. She appeared in juvenile court today, where the judge set trial for April 17. A 13-year-old student at the Langston Hughes School has already been charged with similar activities.

3)20 June 97

12-Year-Old Girl Charged with Rape

WATERTOWN, N.Y. (AP) -- Police have charged a 12-year-old girl with sexually abusing a 9-year-old boy four times over a two-month period.

The incidents involved sexual intercourse and genital fondling and occurred in the boy's bedroom during December and January, Jefferson County Sheriff's Detective Mark D. DeVito said Friday.

Though no force was involved, the girl has been charged with first-degree rape and sexual assault charges because of the boy's age, DeVito said. He refused to release how the children knew each other, but added that they were not related.

The boy's parents were unaware of the incidents until the youth told them, DeVito said. The parents then sought an investigation.

Babysitters Who Rape

Lets briefly take a look at some rapes cases which took place few years back.

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1)6-23-1993

Woman Is Convicted Of Corrupting Minor

A 32-year-old Medina woman was found guilty Friday, by Medina County Common Pleas Judge Judith Cross after pleading no contest to a charge of corrupting a minor.

Nancy R. was convicted of engaging in sexual conduct with a 14-year-old boy she reportedly was baby-sitting last October in Brunswick, according to court and police records.

2)3 Dec 1997

Babysitter charged with abuse after suspicious dad installed camera

M.D., 28, was ordered held without bail, after she pleaded innocent to one count each of sodomy and sexual abuse in an appearance before Nassau District Court Judge Michael S. Alonge.

Police said the babysitter allegedly had the toddler touch her and perform oral sodomy.

More and more parents are using hidden cameras to find out what goes on when the babysitter is alone with the children. The recent trial of English au pair Louise Woodward, convicted in the death of an 8-month-old, sent many concerned parents scrambling to video retailers.

3)24 Nov 1997
Houston Chronicle

Woman Charged in Assault

A woman was charged Monday with aggravated sexual assault of a 9-year-old boy.

Julia W., 39, was held in lieu of $40,000 bail after Pasadena police arrested her Monday afternoon.

Police spokesman Sgt. J.M Baird said the boy's father went out of town for a weekend in September and left him in Julia W.'s care.

4)15 Jan 98

Peabody Baby Sitter Pleads Innocent to Raping a Boy

SALEM, MA (AP) - A 40-year-old Peabody woman pleaded innocent Thursday to charges of raping a boy she baby-sat over a three-year period.

Prosecutors said Linda R. molested the boy - a son of her friend - between 1994 and 1997, when he was 7 to 10 years old.

5)3 Dec 1997

HEMPSTEAD, NY _ A 28-year-old Long Island nanny is being held without bail on charges she forced her 2-year-old charge to perform oral sex. Police in Nassau County say the little girl's parents caught nanny Maria D. on videotape with a secret camera in the den of their Rockville Centre home.

Why some men rape

source:http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/5/29/focus/21384405&sec=focus

MANY people have said that even grandmothers and small babies have been raped, yet they are not sexily dressed and the women's clothes should not be a factor in the rising number of rape cases in the country.

Don't these people know that rapists rape women of their fantasies? And under all the layers of covering, they know that there is still a woman, the “sexy” woman of their fantasies.

These rapists are normal human beings; they do everything that other men do. But deep inside them there is resentment. And with continued exposure to films, TV programmes, magazines and even newspapers that often show women wearing clothes that many people consider to be revealing, sooner or later, the rapists in them emerge.

Yes, believe it or not, sports too encourage such men to dwell on their weird fantasies especially when they see young women and under-aged girls wearing skimpy clothes or swimsuits live on TV.

The quest to win gold medals in sporting events have even forced pious Muslim women in Malaysia especially to discard their religious values on aurat, and the sports and other political authorities too don't seem to mind.

Olympic gold medals, or even the lowly ranked South-East Asian Games or SEA Games bronze medals are enough temptation for these women to push aside religious values.

And these potential rapists are everywhere. They may be your close friends, relatives or husband, but they are not rapists yet if they do not have the victims.

And the victims are not those women they often see in the media wearing skimpy clothes because these women are often in the company of other women and men. And they do not parade their skimpy clothes in the secluded areas, but in public places.

However, there are some women and girls who go about on their own, riding motorcycles in the woods, walk in a deserted lane to go to college and go to the deserted car parks at night with their equally young boyfriend because they had seen movies showing young couples doing the same thing.

The girl thinks just because her young boyfriend is there, she is also safe. But doesn't she realise that if they are confronted by several men who are older and stronger than the boy, she will become a victim?

I have read many cases of rapes taking place and they happened in secluded places including in the buses and taxis. Yes, the buses and taxis are forms of public transportation but only if there are many other passengers in them. However, if there is only a single woman passenger and the driver, then the bus and taxi can become another person's bedroom.

I hope those who say that even women and small babies have been raped, yet they are not sexily dressed and are too old or too young, must also admit the fact that these old women and small babies are not what they are to the rapists.

MANSOR PUTIH,
Cheras, Selangor.

concernedheart says:

mansor putih,did you write this  when you are mentally well?
are you justifying the act of a rapist?

oh man,how could you say that sport women's dressing can provoke lust?your point of view is so immatured and ill.sports suppose to be a healthy programme for all age,mainly for teenagers and school students where it can be a good inspiration for them to join sports and spend their time fruitfully.

can i ask you something,by watching tv programmes you can provoked?do you how many of us watching tv daily all over the world????oh god,do you have a tv at home?who do you rape daily after watching tv programmes which casted by sexily-dressed women????

lets look at some statistics:
2,431 rape cases happened in 2006 (source: Polis Di Raja Malaysia, 2007)
total population in 2006: 26.64 million people
0.02% of Malaysian men rape women
so in your opinion the balance 99.98% of men who watch TV or read newspapers do not rape women??

mansor please clear my doubts...are you a rapist?

in my opinion the victim can never be pointed as the cause,mansor have you read fathers raping daughters? will you blame the daughter in that situation?if you are saying clothing is a factor,let me ask you something:
when a rich man gets robbed-will you blame him for being robbed because he is rich and not the robber?
cloths of a woman can never be a factor,its all about the man's self control and his inner moral in looking at things positively.

for instance,a medical student or a doctor will have to see a naked body almost the whole course or thruout his profession,just imagine if he doesnt inherit moral values and a positive mind-he might be raping daily otherwise!!!

failing to control lust,exposure to social illness and psychological disorders are main factors for a man to commit rape in my opinion.

about girls who are having boyfriends....mansor they dont have worry about the secondary risk(a stronger or elder person than her boyfriend),her own boyfriend(s) is her first risk i would say...this based on many incidents of girlfriends got raped by their own boyfriend(s).

and about the public transportation,
i have travelled many times alone in a bus since my stop is the last one,
there was never an occasion where the bus driver took advantage by transforming the bus into bedroom,mansor-ur suggestion on public transport is an insult for those dedicated bus drivers.
1000s of girls travelling by taxis daily,do we hear 1000s of rape cases in a day which committed by taxi drivers?
just because one or two drivers commit such a cruel act,we can judge the entire public transport drivers are transforming their bus and cabs into bedroom.

mansor stop being a narrow minded person!
brush up your mind and view before writting an article to the public otherwise you gonna get massive banging from readers!